Current:Home > MarketsAlice Munro's daughter alleges she was abused by stepfather and her mom stayed with him -Quantum Finance Bridge
Alice Munro's daughter alleges she was abused by stepfather and her mom stayed with him
View
Date:2025-04-18 03:11:21
Alice Munro's daughter is alleging she was sexually abused by her stepfather and that the Nobel Prize-winning author stood by him.
In an essay published Sunday in the Toronto Star, Andrea Robin Skinner, Munro's daughter from her first marriage to James Munro, said she was sexually assaulted by Gerald Fremlin, her stepfather and Munro's second husband, in 1976. She was 9 years old at the time.
In 2005, Fremlin received two years' probation after pleading guilty in Canadian court to assaulting Skinner.
The assault occurred when Skinner went to visit Munro for the summer at her home in Ontario. Fremlin also "made lewd jokes, exposed himself during car rides, told me about the little girls in the neighbourhood he liked, and described my mother's sexual needs," she wrote. Once, in front of Munro, he "told me that many cultures in the past weren't as 'prudish' as ours, and it used to be considered normal for children to learn about sex by engaging in sex with adults," Skinner alleged.
Years later, when she was 25, Skinner says she wrote a letter to her mother telling her about the sexual abuse, but Munro was "incredulous." According to the essay, Fremlin told Munro that he "would kill me if I ever went to the police." Despite what Skinner had told her, the short story writer remained married to Fremlin until his death in 2013.
Check out: USA TODAY's weekly Best-selling Booklist
Alice Munro,Nobel Prize-winning author and master of the short story, dies at 92
"She said that she had been 'told too late,' she loved him too much, and that our misogynistic culture was to blame if I expected her to deny her own needs, sacrifice for her children, and make up for the failings of men," Skinner wrote. "She was adamant that whatever had happened was between me and my stepfather. It had nothing to do with her."
Skinner also said Fremlin's former friends told her mother that he exposed himself to their 14-year-old daughter.
Skinner ended contact with her mother after telling her that Fremlin could never be around her own kids, and the two never reconciled their relationship.
Though she wrote that she was "satisfied" with Fremlin pleading guilty to indecent assault, Skinner also wanted her story to be told and for future interviews and biographies of Munro to wrestle with "the fact that my mother, confronted with the truth of what had happened, chose to stay with, and protect, my abuser."
But Skinner said this did not happen, and due to her mother's fame, "the silence continued."
Alice Munrowins Nobel Prize in literature
The essay comes after Munro, who in 2013 was awarded the Nobel Prize in Literature, died in May at age 92 after suffering from dementia for over a decade.
"I want so much for my personal story to focus on patterns of silencing, the tendency to do that in families and societies," Skinner told the Toronto Star. "I just really hope that this story isn't about celebrities behaving badly … I hope that … even if someone goes to this story for the entertainment value, they come away with something that applies to their own family."
If you or someone you know has experienced sexual violence, RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline offers free, confidential, 24/7 support to survivors and their loved ones in English and Spanish at: 800.656.HOPE (4673) and Hotline.RAINN.org and en Español RAINN.org/es.
veryGood! (82)
Related
- What do we know about the mysterious drones reported flying over New Jersey?
- Kate Cox sought an abortion in Texas. A court said no because she didn’t show her life was in danger
- UN General Assembly votes overwhelmingly to demand a humanitarian cease-fire in Gaza
- Five whales came to a Connecticut aquarium in 2021. Three have now died
- What to know about Tuesday’s US House primaries to replace Matt Gaetz and Mike Waltz
- AT&T Stadium employee accused of letting ticketless fans into Cowboys-Eagles game for cash
- Indhu Rubasingham named as first woman to lead Britain’s National Theatre
- Virginia sheriff’s office says Tesla was running on Autopilot moments before tractor-trailer crash
- Israel lets Palestinians go back to northern Gaza for first time in over a year as cease
- How the remixed American 'cowboy' became the breakout star of 2023
Ranking
- What were Tom Selleck's juicy final 'Blue Bloods' words in Reagan family
- Florida fines high school for allowing transgender student to play girls volleyball
- Teen fatally shot as he drove away from Facebook Marketplace meetup: Reports
- Cheating in sports: Michigan football the latest scandal. Why is playing by rules so hard?
- Meta donates $1 million to Trump’s inauguration fund
- Norfolk, Virginia, approves military-themed brewery despite some community pushback
- For The Eras Tour, Taylor Swift takes a lucrative and satisfying victory lap
- Southern California school janitor who spent years in jail acquitted of child sexual abuse
Recommendation
A South Texas lawmaker’s 15
FBI to exhume woman’s body from unsolved 1969 killing in Netflix’s ‘The Keepers’
Pew survey: YouTube tops teens’ social-media diet, with roughly a sixth using it almost constantly
Are Ye and Ty Dolla $ign releasing their 'Vultures' album? What to know amid controversy
Person accused of accosting Rep. Nancy Mace at Capitol pleads not guilty to assault charge
Multiple injuries reported in nighttime missile attack on Ukrainian capital
Are the products in your shopping cart real?
Why Bella Thorne Is Trying to Hide Battery Packs in Her Hair for Mark Emms Wedding